RHONJ: Teresa Giudice Says She Spent Over $1 Million Paying Joe's Authorized Charges and Again Taxes

Teresa Giudice’s household and Bravo costars urged her to rush up her divorce proceedings on Wednesday’s Actual Housewives of New Jersey, over fears that her estranged husband Joe Giudice would search spousal assist if she waited too lengthy.

The truth star’s separation got here up within the remaining installment of the three-part season 10 reunion, as she sat with brother Joe Gorga, sister-in-law Melissa Gorga, and fellow Housewives Margaret Josephs, Dolores Catania, Jennifer Aydin, and Jackie Goldschneider.

PEOPLE broke the information again in December that Teresa, 47, and Joe, 49, have been splitting after 20 years collectively. On the time, a supply near the pair mentioned that the 2 weren’t exploring divorce proceedings but.

That’s nonetheless the place issues stood as of reunion time, however Teresa’s brother mentioned he had been attempting to get her to rush up the method.

“I’ve been speaking to her and pushing her, like, ‘When are you getting a divorce? Signal the papers!’ I’m the one calling her and pushing her,” he mentioned. “Ship him the papers, signal!”

He added that he believes Joe would try to get cash from Teresa, regardless of her insistence that her ex was “not that sort” and “ come after something.”

However Teresa’s costars agreed together with her brother. “Say you meet the right man tomorrow and issues go effectively and also you need to transfer on together with your life. He’s going to get offended. That’ll set off it,” Catania mentioned. “ no cause to attend.”

Catania additionally mentioned that Joe “looks like owes him.” Teresa’s BFF got here to that conclusion after Teresa advised reunion host Andy Cohen she had spent over $1 million paying Joe’s authorized charges and again taxes, but was nonetheless being blamed by Joe for his or her issues — the daddy of 4 allegedly telling her, ” ‘If it wasn’t for the present, this could have by no means occurred.’ ”

(Joe started a 41-month jail sentence for mail, wire and chapter fraud in March 2016; Teresa served a little bit over 11 months in jail for a similar crimes, and was launched on Dec. 23, 2015. Joe was launched from jail final 12 months however was held within the custody of Immigration and Customs Enforcement on the Clinton County Correctional Heart in Pennsylvania as he fought to enchantment a choose’s deportation order. Because of the tough circumstances contained in the ICE facility, although, Joe requested to go to Italy, the place he’s awaiting his third and remaining deportation enchantment.)

Ultimately, their urges appeared to get by way of to Teresa. She mentioned on the reunion that she was “engaged on” the divorce papers, however that “it looks like procrastinating.”

“In fact he does, as a result of he needs the cha-cha-ching!” Joe Gorga mentioned. “It’s important to transfer it.”

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Teresa and Joe married in 1999 and share 4 daughters: Gia, 19, Gabriella, 16, Milania, 15, and Audriana, 11.

Earlier this season, Teresa revealed that she and Joe had a prenup, one which he made her signal earlier than their marriage ceremony.

The demand nearly triggered Teresa to name off her nuptials, however she determined to go ahead with one if there was a no-cheat clause added to the doc that may void it ought to both of them stray.

Whereas there have been rumors that each Teresa and Joe had been untrue throughout their time collectively, each have denied these. At Wednesday’s reunion, Teresa went as far as to state that regardless of beforehand speaking about her suspicions, she had no proof of any affair.

“I need to simply make one thing clear. I by no means caught him as a result of I don’t need individuals to assume I stayed with a cheater, ’trigger that’s not me,” Teresa mentioned. “I’m such a bitch, if I caught my husband dishonest, I might not be with him. That’s all I would wish to say, ‘bye, bye.’ ”

“I’m positive everybody believed it from seeing the tabloids … however he by no means advised me,” Teresa added.

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A kind of individuals was Joe Gorga, who advised Teresa he believed the rumors however by no means mentioned something out of respect for his sister and his nieces.

Whereas Joe Gorga held his tongue there, he wasn’t quiet about his current emotions in the direction of his brother-in-law. What was particularly upsetting to Teresa’s solely sibling? The way in which her husband spoke to her throughout their one-to-one interview with Cohen again in October.

“I wasn’t pleased with the interview,” Joe Gorga mentioned. “He simply did 4 years in jail, he may have got here out and mentioned, ‘I apologize, I’m sorry.’ You realize, you beg, you pled. You inform your spouse you’re sorry, you inform your child you’re sorry. You don’t sit there such as you’re God since you’re not God. Look what simply occurred to you! … You simply acquired to be extra humble and good.”

Even Cohen chimed in with criticism in the direction of Joe. “This can be a man who’s preventing his deportation? If I’m from ICE and I’m watching , why am I flipping this round?”

“He appears very conceited nonetheless,” Melissa mentioned, citing a scene between Teresa and Joe throughout her go to to see him in Italy that aired later within the season. “I used to be aggravated simply watching that clip together with her in Italy, and him spinning the wine. I used to be furious watching that. Like, what a prick. Like, I needed to knock the wine proper out of his fingers.”

Nonetheless, Teresa remained supportive of her ex.

“I’m like used to Joe, and I assumed it wasn’t unhealthy. Like, I’m used to the best way he’s,” she mentioned. “I really feel unhealthy. I believe the best way you have been raised had loads to do with it. I don’t assume he had that coddling love rising up and I really feel unhealthy for him. He doesn’t know specific himself and he solely is aware of a method, like a tough manner.”

She went on to say that Joe’s deportation, which he’s at the moment preventing, “breaks my coronary heart.”

“I really feel unhealthy for my daughters,” Teresa mentioned, including that her eldest daughter Gia was in remedy. “Me and Joe can get by way of something, I hate that my children need to undergo this. This complete factor, they’re not punishing Joe and I, they’re punishing the children. It’s not truthful to them.”

“I by no means pictured my life to finish like this. I imply, it’s not ending but, however I by no means thought I used to be going to undergo all this,” she mentioned, crying.